my sister-in-law passed away on Sunday. 54 years old. She was crazy, and in a lifelong codependent relationship with my mother-in-law. She was married and divorced I think 4 times, and always moved back in with MIL.
Found out my mother-in-law is 10s to 100s of thousands of dollars in debt, which isn't that much of a surprise, but is going to make it difficult for her to pay for a funeral and associated expenses.
We aren't attending.
For a bit of context. I really wish the whole story from a decade ago hadn't been lost to tigerboard history.
http://tigerboard.com/boards/view.php?message=16596855