https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Coddling_of_the_American_Mind
It has three main points/concerns related to coddled and warped minds, and the
gold one below is applicable to your post:
"Lukianoff and Haidt argue that many problems on campus have their origins in three "great untruths" that have become prominent in education: "What doesn’t kill you makes you weaker"; "always trust your feelings"; and
"life is a battle between good people and evil people". The authors state that these three "great untruths" contradict modern psychology and ancient wisdom from many cultures.[1]"